We are told to say 'NO' graciously to the seniors and customers to avoid any cumbersome moment and imbalance in our professional relationship. Most leaders on the ground are not ready to accept the 'NO' from anyone for any reasons. The word 'NO' always touches the ego of the leaders and make them reluctant to accept the same.
They were ready to experience the mistake at any cost just to ride over the egoism.
It is always easy for trainers, coaches and external personal to simply say 'NO' from outside. When you are in a situation, people always value the professional bonding than the damage they would create to their own credibleness and reliableness.
Also Leaders at a times, take the answer 'NO' personally and make it as a point to remind on every activity associated with that person. This always jeopardize the professional relationship. Leaders knowingly or unknowingly start fueling the gap occurred due to mishap. This crops up many question in our mind.
How open the leader should be to a negative answers? Is there a fear of loosing position with subordinates? Are there ego is higher their own company or institution interest? Are they reluctant to accept 'NO' just because they are boss?
I think at the moment the answer is NO, our leaders are not ready to accept negative answers from their subordinates.